Since the time I got to start living on my own, I started living like a different person. Well, its not like I wanted to be like this or anything, but I kind of knew it was going to happen. Yes, I am an irresponsible person. Careless too. What else would you expect?
A guy living some eighteen years completely with parents gets to live alone, all by himself! Sounds like a jackpot, no? Being able to live life on my rules, the topmost of which says,” There are no rules!” keeping my clothes dirty, skipping my lectures whenever I wanted, keeping my bed all covered with the mess, and why only bed when I had this whole room! Getting up late in the morning, skipping breakfast, often lunch too, then not giving a damn because it looked far better to sleep idle than go out and have food, then having dinner after whole self-consuming day. Day started at 12:00 PM sharp, maybe later. And when did it end? Well, 5:00 AM next morning.
Well now, after about one year of this freedom, things are coming back to the normal mode. The mess on bed and the smelly bucket of clothes first began to irk, then it grew into being disgusting, and then came this sparkling idea that the way out of disgust is to clean the mess. Missing the lectures resulted in shortage of attendance; in fact I was afraid if I might get detained. So with no choices left, I started attending classes. For classes I had to get up early, so that way I took my breakfast too, and so my dinner. But there was one thing I never left: sleeping at 5:00 AM.
There are plenty of reasons why it is so. Probably in those four hours of 1:00 AM to 5:00 AM you may reflect on where the previous day left you, and where the next day is going to lead you to. Probably for those four hours, you do not have to answer to anyone. For those four hours that pillow is the only witness of your sobs and that phone is the only companion to see you smile. Reasons may be a lot, but these four hours are the best hours of all the twenty four.
Perfect silence with just the crickets creaking and toads croaking, and the occasional rustling of trees, if you are lucky. Climb up on the terrace, sit on the topmost of your house and see the surroundings glittering with tiny lights. Pee wherever you want and see the flow fall as far as it can. Be proud of it too. Sing loudly, even if you sound really awful, because nobody is going to ask you to shut up just because they want to study. Give loud lectures to the air and mesmerize your audience and then think, there certainly is a speaker in you and you may even make it big! You can dream high in these four hours, because nobody is going to think that you’re insane or ask you to get back to the real world.
These four hours bring forward the real person inside you. And this is important, because as soon as it hits five, however pretty the sunrise might appear, the birds are going to chirp and get back to work, waking the whole world with them. A new day would begin; someone would come to you and say, “You are no good.” Some girl would come and ask you to move and find ‘someone better’ because actually you suck as a boyfriend. Because actually you suck at everything.You’d meet random people who you think are lovable, as they treat you well for a while. But as the time passes, you’d get to know they were just to exploit you for their purposes. Every single person you believe is going to deceive you. Every single relation you find trustworthy is going to break right at the moment you need it the most. Fake faces is all you’d find around you whole day.
You would think for every single day not to fall for anyone and not to get hurt, and yet everyday you’d face the same things over and over again. You’d help someone, and you’d be considered idiot enough to be used. And even with all this happening, you can’t cry. You can’t show your emotions. Every moment of the day would start feeling like taking a step closer to death. You’d be forced to realize that you are a functional robot, not a human being. And if you tried to tell this to someone, either you are going to be mocked, or you’d be told this is life.You have to prove yourself every now and then. There is a competion in every step, and you are a loser. Intact, the insides of your brain would be bursting with the sounds Failure.. failure.. or loser.. loser..You can do nothing. You are just the witness.
People would expect things from you, yell at you and still want you to be good with them. And guess what, you would do that happily. Because you know you want to survive until it gets 1:00 AM again. You want yourself to get energized to face the next day, or at least to shred off the wears of the previous day!
So this is why I never miss these four hours between 1 AM to 5 AM. I know the next day won’t be any better. I’m going to die in a similar fashion again. But before the death, I want to be alive again. I want to hear my heartbeats again, and even if no one wants to agree to this, I want myself to feel my existence. I can’t sleep in these hours. I might or might not get time to sleep during the day, but I certainly can’t sleep in the hours of my actual life.
Well, I guess its time to leave this article here because its already 5:15 AM! See you guys later, time to face the world.
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